Accept the Better Version of You Awaiting You!

Let’s Share a Growth Moment…

Joseph Campbell invites us to “let go of the life we have planned, so as to accept the one waiting for us”.

What is the difference there?

What is the life you have planned? Be very clear how you’ve been creating your life, seeing the results, and consequences, of the actions you’ve taken, and the thoughts you’ve been giving your attention, which is to say your power…

How are your thoughts and actions actively creating the life you desire?

Where *WERE* your thoughts and actions stifling, limiting or blocking that life you are focused and determined to have?

What is the life waiting for you?

This one I ask you to ‘hold’ as meaning that the divine, which always wants to give you more than what you’ve previously been willing to receive yourself, has prepared your Most Perfect Bliss, that life of abundant blessings, love, joy, peace…

That’s the life waiting for you – Start feeling into… clearly defining… and OWNING that life…

Because that’s how you’re aligning the life you have planned… with the life waiting for you… and therefore that’s the life you’re creating… and already beginning to live… and LOVE!!!

How is this Growth Moment meaningful for you? Email me your thoughts at [email protected].

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Thanks! Now go to http://www.GrowthMoment.com and receive your Growth Moment there. I *think* you’ll want to share that one, as well. I also hope you’ll join our Growth Moment Membership – and *High-Frequency Leader Mastermind*!

Joyfully,
Dan Klatt,
http://RaceToHalfMillion.com and Global Prosperity Network Founder,
“Reignited America” author

April 24, 2021April 9, 2024

Practicing Mindfulness

Love IS. Get More. Give More. Be More.

It’s extremely important you’re here and now taking to heart the need we all have to Give More Love! It’s how you’re fulfilling your life purpose and Being of Service to everyone you can. Let’s get started now…

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You’re absolutely instrumental in the world becoming more loving!

Are You Practicing Mindfulness as You’re Giving More Love?

By Dan Klatt,

GivingMoreLove.com Founder

How mindful are you about your level of mindfulness? Is it something you practice regularly? If you’re new to the concept, or don’t remember to be mindful, getting into the habit can have a big impact on how content you feel, especially as part of how we’re all Giving More Love – each day… and every moment!

Let’s look at what mindfulness is and how it relates to how happy and content we feel.

What Is Mindfulness?

Mindfulness means being present and fully aware of who you are, where you are, and how you feel. It’s really seeing the beauty around you… BEING LOVING! It’s about spending quality time with others – being 100% present. It’s the opposite of being distracted and absent minded.

In this day and age as were we’re dealing with constant information and distractions, it’s hard to be mindful. Our default state is to be unaware and filter out as much of the noise as we can. As a result, many people have forgotten how to be mindful. When was the last time you stopped and smelled the

roses?

What’s The Connection Between Mindfulness and Contentment?

Mindfulness will do a few different things for you that will increase your happiness and your overall contentment. The first thing it often does is it helps you recognize the negative thoughts that are stuck in your head. It helps you break through those thought patterns and loops, allowing you

to focus on more positive and beautiful things.

Mindfulness also helps you focus on and increase your level of gratitude. Often overlooked in the hustle and bustle, practicing gratitude is one of the quickest and most powerful tools to help you feel better and increase your contentment. Make feeling grateful part of your daily mindfulness exercises and see for yourself how well this works.

How Can You Start to Practice Mindfulness?

Now that we’ve established what mindfulness is, I’m sure you’re ready to give the practice of mindfulness a serious try. The good news is that it’s easy to do. The hard part is to remember to do it regularly. Set up reminders around the house, the office, or on your smart phone to create daily habits for this practice. When the time comes, or you simply think about practicing mindfulness, take a calming breath and become aware of your surroundings. Consciously return to your center, where you’re actively Giving More Love!

Practicing mindfulness can be as simple as admiring a pretty flower growing just outside your office window, or the puffy clouds forming in the sky. It could be spending 15 minutes coloring with your toddler or really listening to your daughter tell you about her day at school. It’s all about paying attention to the little things.

Breathing meditation is another great way to practice mindfulness. Sit in a quiet room and become aware of your breath, your body, the chair or floor you’re sitting on, your posture, how the light warms your skin, etc.

Whenever you find yourself getting distracted by other thoughts, gently bring yourself back to feeling your body and noticing your breath. Feel it flowing in and out. Practicing this for a few minutes daily is a great place to start. It’s also something that will help you become more aware of the beauty of the world around you the rest of the day.

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February 16, 2021February 16, 2021

To Have What You Want, Create, Attract, Manifest and ALLOW It!

This might seem like a subtle distinction, yet it’s an important one for you to make consciously: Of course to get what you want, you have to know what you want.

Let’s start there – What is it you want? What are you creating for yourself?

You’re also open to whatever that is coming to you, right? I talk about it as CAMA, Creating, Attracting, Allowing and Manifesting.

All four come into play at the same time.

You’re creating what you want… You’re giving it your attention. You’re feeling great about having it. You’re making it your priority. You’re focusing on it…

That’s also attracting it to you. You’re Prime Cause. That thing is the effect you’ve created. So receive it. Look for it. Find it. As well as the next steps for you to meet it halfway.

How are you doing all these things with that thing you’re manifesting?

How can you do more of that, and keep it more present for you each moment?

You’re also ALLOWING IT to be yours. You’re acknowledging the fact that you deserve it. And that the seed desire for you to have that – was “planted” within you by the Divine. You have that desire precisely because it’s meant to be yours.

It’s important for you to have that, as part of Serving people the way you’re meant to Be of Service. Or as part of living the life you’re meant to have. Or it’s meant to teach you something. Or the process of Creating, Attracting, Manifesting and Allowing it is how you’re BECOMING the person who does all the right things to have EVERYTHING you desire…

What are the deeper aspects at play here, with you welcoming this joyful manifestation into your life?

How much better are you becoming as a person, by creating this thing?

If it would help you have that thing you want by using the “8 Steps to Infinite Wealth” to Create… Attract… Manifest… and Allow it, as I believe it would, please apply what you want to the 8 Steps. You may do that through http://www.InfiniteWealthAlliance.com/primer/.

Thank you for reading this. I appreciate your time. I would appreciate knowing how it helped you. I THRIVE on knowing the impact my work has on people!

November 15, 2019March 28, 2018

I can relinquish control to others.

I like letting others be in charge.

It saves me time, energy, and worry while allowing me to happily go about my day, doing my best by controlling only myself!

Even if I have the ultimate responsibility for the outcome of something, I can delegate individual tasks to others.

I release the tendency to control any aspect of how the tasks are done, as long as they are completed effectively.

Everyone has their own unique way of doing things and I appreciate our differences.

Letting others have control over their own assigned tasks results in better quality work.

We work better together when I don’t try to control everything.

This is true both at work and home.

At work, my co-workers are more motivated when they know they share control.

At home, releasing my control over many of the household tasks to my children allows them to feel needed and learn responsibility.

When I let go of having to control everything, it frees me!

A heavy burden is lifted from my shoulders and I am able to go with the flow and just enjoy life!

As I release the need for control, I can feel stress and worry float away with it.

I am happier and at peace when I let go.

Today, I choose to let go of any desire to control other people or events, focusing on the joyful simplicity of life when I only need to control myself.

What tasks can you delegate to others to free up some of your time?

How do you allow your children to be in control of their own responsibilities?

Talk about that in the Personal Growth Cafe Community!

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November 10, 2019March 27, 2018

I accept myself wholly and completely.

September 28, 2019March 27, 2018

Keeping Your Self-Esteem after a Job Loss

If you’ve lost your job, there’s no denying that it can be a devastating ordeal.

It can be a real burden, especially when your whole family depended on that job and the income it provided.

However, you can find the strength to recover from a tragic job loss.

Sometimes it’s difficult to find the silver lining, but it’s always there waiting to be discovered.

Focusing On Your Self-Esteem

Your thoughts are very powerful. Sometimes you may think that you don’t have control over your thoughts, but you always do.

Of course you should give yourself time to recover from the initial shock of a job loss, but it’s how you choose to react afterwards that makes all the difference.

When you focus on developing positive self-esteem, you’ll be able to think clearly and confidently so you can figure out what your next steps are going to be.

You may even use this new opportunity to finally follow your dream job.

Have these tips in mind to keep your self-esteem intact:

1. Give yourself time to grieve.

Sometimes you don’t think of job loss as being the same as other types of loss, but the shock can be the same and you should allow yourself some time to go through the standard stages of grief.

You’ll eventually recover from the shock, but give yourself an appropriate amount of time to absorb the situation.

2. Look for a support system. You might feel especially alone after losing your job.

Your initial reaction might be to run and hide and keep your emotions inside.

Be sure to fight this feeling and, instead, rely on your support system.

Remember: it’s okay to ask for help, that’s what your support network is for!

3. Keep up your motivation. After the shock has worn off, it’s important to strive for a certain level of enthusiasm and motivation to find another job.

You need to believe in yourself and trust that things will turn out for the best.

Remember that your new job might be even better than your last one!

4. Looking for a new job. When you’re ready to start the search, consider all of your options.

You may want to consider whether or not you really enjoyed the field you were in before.

Consider your job loss as a new opportunity.

Maybe you’d like to try bringing your life into a different direction.

5. Keep an eye on your finances. When you deal with job loss, you must also deal with the financial realities.

Determine your current financial situation and how long you have until you must return to work.

Maybe you have to find a job right away, or perhaps you have enough savings to consider other career options.

Whatever the case may be, you should know what the financial implications mean to you and your family.

New Life: New Opportunities

After dealing with job loss, the best thing you can do is to think of it as a new opportunity in life.

Sure, you didn’t choose to embark on this path at this particular time, but it’s important to roll with the punches.

Don’t be afraid to take risks.

Also, don’t be afraid to adopt the attitude that everything happens for a reason.

Bad things happen in life, but good things happen too.

Stay strong for yourself and your family and your self-esteem will prevail.

How do you remain strong in spite of conflicts in life?

How can you push yourself to move forward and just learn from everything that happens?

Talk about that in the Personal Growth Cafe Community!

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September 28, 2019March 27, 2018

Low self-esteem is like driving through life with your hand-break on. – Maxwell Maltz

September 7, 2019March 27, 2018

How to Be a Better Communicator

Communication is the key when it comes to anything that involves collaboration.

Since humans are a social species, communication is involved in nearly everything you do.

Some people are born with the natural ability to communicate well, while others may struggle with it.

No matter what category you fall into, it’s likely that you can benefit from paying attention to improving your communication skills.

Why Better Communication Helps You

Did you know that most businesses consider your communication skills to be the most important characteristic about you?

This means that you could have top-notch knowledge and job skills but still fail to land a job if you’re lacking in the communication department.

Communication is certainly not only important when it comes to your work life, but it’s also vital in having a successful home life as well.

Couples and family members that are good communicators lead happier lives overall.

Proper communication will prevent misunderstandings and save you time so you won’t have to go back and explain yourself again and again.

You know you’ve gained good communication skills when you can communicate your thoughts effectively with as few words as necessary!

How To Improve Communication With Others

Communication is a two way street.

This means that you could have excellent skills, but if the recipient is lacking, then you may not be understood.

This is why it’s important not only to develop our speaking skills, but our listening skills, too.

Since you can’t affect the skill level of others, the only thing you can do is strengthen your own communication skills.

Besides, when you’re an excellent communicator, more people will understand you, everything around you will run more efficiently, and you’ll more often get what you want!

Try these strategies to improve your communication skills:

1. Avoid arguing. If you run into a snag in a conversation and it starts to morph into an argument, step back and realize what’s going on.

It’s easy to get swept up into the blame game, but ultimately it’s not important who’s at fault.

What’s important is the mutual understanding of the issue at hand and a desire for a solution that benefits everyone.

2. Don’t be afraid to compromise. You may be tempted to try and “win” but that’s not the best way to reach a mutual agreement.

You may be happier with getting your way, but it may come at the expense of the other person, which can cause further issues.

Find a good compromise that you both can willingly accept.

3. Work on listening. Your listening skills are even more important than your speaking skills.

After all, how will you know what you should say – and when – if you haven’t effectively listened?

Listen more than you speak and you’ll gain a profound wisdom of others, too!

4. Keep your focus. Communication will get overly complicated if you worry about too many issues at once.

Avoid bringing up the past or other issues and, instead, focus on the one topic at hand.

5. Stay calm and take responsibility. Adopt a calm and cool manner of handling situations.

When things remain low key, it’s easier to communicate and get your point across.

This also means that you need to take responsibility for what you say.

Don’t be afraid to admit mistakes when you’re wrong.

Becoming a better communicator doesn’t happen overnight.

But if you keep practicing and tweaking your skills, you’ll be surprised at what you can accomplish.

How can you reciprocate the love and support that my family gives me?

How can you voice out your opinion in a positive manner?

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August 19, 2019March 26, 2018

How to Boost Your Self-Esteem During Difficult Times

Attempting to boost your self-esteem during normal times is hard enough, but what happens when you’re dealing with a difficult period in your life?

Stressful issues like job loss, broken relationships, or sickness can lower our self-esteem.

We tend to take the blame and feel that, if we were “better,” these things wouldn’t have happened in the first place.

When thinking rationally, we may realize that this is untrue, but it’s harder during times of struggle to feel good about ourselves!

Here are some simple strategies you can use to give your self-esteem a boost during trying times:

1. Focus on the positive. Yes, negative things can happen in your life, but this must not be your only focus.

As I’m sure you’ve heard before: “Things could be worse.”

Try to turn your attention onto what you have that is good.

Whether it’s wonderful children, a terrific spouse, or a roof over your head, focus on what is positive and special in your life.

Not only will this make you feel better about your current situation, but you’ll also realize that these good things would not have been possible without you.

It’s time to understand that you are a positive influence in the lives of many.

Realistically, everyone has to deal with difficult times as a part of growing and maturing.

Try to remember that “this too shall pass” and keep your chin up.

2. Take time for you. With all that’s happening in your life right now, you’re under a lot of stress.

This obviously isn’t helping your feelings of low self-esteem.

More than likely, you’re not taking any time out for the most important person in your life: you.

Allow some time to relax and regroup.

It will do wonders for your mindset!

Make the time to do something that you thoroughly enjoy doing.

It can be alone or with family or a trusted friend – whatever relaxes you the most.

Read a book, take a bubble bath, make some cookies, or dance around the house to your favorite music.

Anything that can relieve some of that stress you’re feeling will make a big difference.

3. Believe that things will get better.

The power of the mind is amazing.

If you’re in a situation that you truly believe is hopeless, your chances of changing that situation worsen greatly.

If you believe things can and will get better, your chances of improving the situation are greatest.

Knowing that things will improve will also help you feel more confident about yourself.

You’ll feel more positive heading into the right direction, and your self-esteem will increase.

Life sometimes presents us with difficult situations that we’re not prepared to deal with.

During these times, consciously redirect your feelings away from the negative and towards the positive.

Your self-esteem will be strengthened, along with your belief of a better outcome.

When you can see a light at the end of the tunnel, things don’t seem as dark.

Use these tips to find your light and feel better.

What unnecessary weight are you carrying?

How do you deal with thoughts of uncertainty?

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August 8, 2019March 26, 2018

Becoming a Master of Self-Discipline

Self-discipline is a powerful attribute to have, yet challenging to obtain.

Self-discipline is the ability to do whatever it takes to overcome obstacles and reach your goals, even when it’s inconvenient or uncomfortable.

It may involve saying: “no” to things you want or saying: “yes” to things you hate, but with the power of self-discipline, it becomes easier to stand up for yourself.

Most individuals would love to be more self-disciplined, yet very few people actually take action to acquire it.

Perhaps you start your day with good intentions, but veer off as the day progresses due to challenging issues, stresses, or distractions.

Thankfully, there are some strategies you can incorporate into your daily life so you can become a master of self-discipline and stay on task.

Follow these techniques to strengthen your self-discipline:

1. Be committed to the cause. Are you truly unhappy being undisciplined?

Is this something that you’re committed to improving?

Many times people claim they want to be more self- disciplined, but the truth is, they honestly don’t mind being the way they are.

2. Be honest with yourself. If this is something that you definitely want to improve in your life, it may take a bit of time and effort, but it can be done.

The only way you’ll succeed is by staying committed to the cause.

3. Write it down. The process of writing your ideas and goals helps you clarify the thoughts in your mind so you can come up with an action plan that you can stick to.

Write down all the areas that you wish to improve – your finances, relationships, career, or anything in between.

Include what changes you would like to see and how you believe will be the best way to make it happen.

4. Enlist the help of others. It’s absolutely wonderful that you’ve committed to make a positive change in your life, but don’t keep it under wraps.

Tell others that you want to make a change and boost your self-discipline.

Don’t be ashamed that you weren’t more self-disciplined from the beginning. The important thing is that you’re now taking positive action!

Those who love you will be there to support you and help you celebrate your successes.

Your support group can also help you get through the bad days and put you back on track to achieve your goals.

5. Believe in yourself. Have faith in yourself and know that if you can master your self-discipline, you can do anything!

There will be both good and bad days, but as long as you remain focused and committed, you’ll be successful in strengthening your self-discipline.

Remember to focus on the big picture and concentrate on how your body, mind, and energy will change for the better when you stay committed.

Many people admire those who are self-disciplined. These people can stay on a schedule and never seem to lose focus on what they need to accomplish.

They make more wise decisions, take action when they need to, and achieve their goals with relative ease.

Implement these strategies into your daily life and they’ll soon become habits.

Self-discipline can become your way of life – if you want it!

In what areas do you need to practice self-discipline?

How do you feel when you’ve controlled yourself in a challenging situation?

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