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August 7, 2019March 26, 2018

Build Confidence With Daily Affirmations

Do you suffer from low self-esteem?

When something negative happens in your life, do you beat yourself up about it time and time again?

Focusing on phrases such as: “That was stupid,” “I am so fat,” “No one loves me,” and a host of other negative statements can easily zap the happiness right out of your life.

Luckily, this doesn’t have to be permanent.

Positive affirmations can turn your negativity around.

Affirmations are simply statements or phrases, which focus on the positive rather than the negative.

These mantras can actually reprogram your subconscious thinking and bring you a plethora of good benefits that you’ll enjoy for years to come!

Here are some easy ways to incorporate positive affirmations into your life:

1. Affirmations should always be in the present tense. Begin your statements with “I can” “I have” or “I am,” instead of a phrase like “I will” or “I may.”

Examples of this would be “I have a beautiful body” and “I am so intelligent,” instead of “I will never be so stupid again.”

Choose statements that focus on the positive attributes you want to encourage, saying them as if you already exhibit that behavior.

2. Address yourself by name when expressing your affirmations.

Believe it or not, this does make a big difference. When you say: “I, Jane Doe, am a beautiful person both inside and out,” it makes your affirmation more powerful because you hear the lovely sound of your own name!

Using your name in the affirmations allows your subconscious to process the words even quicker.

3. Focus on one or two affirmations to start with.

Although you possess many positive attributes, it’s best to focus only on one or two when you’re first starting out.

If you start with twenty positive affirmations, your subconscious may be overwhelmed or dismiss the deeper meaning.

For example, if you meet someone who goes on and on about how great and beautiful you are, what’s your reaction?

Usually after the second or third compliment, you tend to wonder if this person is actually being sincere!

The same principal applies to practicing many affirmations at once.

Focus on one or two, and when they’re firmly planted into your subconscious, you can move on to more.

4. Practice your affirmations as often as possible.

Our subconscious mind is more open to suggestions when we first open our eyes in the morning and then again when we’re ready to fall asleep at night.

The more often you recite your affirmations, the faster you’ll experience lasting changes.

5. Don’t fret if you’re having trouble writing your affirmations.

There are many books and self-improvement websites that include hundreds of good, daily affirmations.

You can then pick out one or two that you’d like to focus on and get started.

Don’t let something as insignificant as not being able to compose a positive mantra hold you back from making changes and incorporating happiness into your life!

Low self-esteem is something that holds us back from living the life we deserve.

You can rebuild your confidence and self-esteem with daily affirmations and experience the joy of life you’ve been missing.

Try it and you’ll love it!

What changes can you make to strengthen yourself in this area?

How often do you accept your mistakes without beating yourself up?

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August 6, 2019March 26, 2018

Positivity fills my mind.

August 5, 2019March 26, 2018

How to Develop Your Strengths

Everyone has unique talents and strengths, but whether we’ve discovered and actively developed them is the real question!

Maybe we’ve been told that we’re good at something, but we let our skills go untapped while we wait for the confidence and courage to take action.

There are even some people whose self-esteem is suffering to the point that they truly believe they don’t possess any talents at all!

If this is you, please believe that your talents are there, just waiting to be revealed to you!

These tried and true strategies will help you develop your strengths to their full potential:

1. Research. Perhaps you think that you’re strong in one area, but you aren’t completely sure.

This is where you need to look into things that interest you or that you believe you might be good at.

See what resources are available and what it would take to make the commitment to strengthen your strengths.

2. Patience. Developing your strengths to their full potential won’t occur overnight.

To fully develop a talent, you must be patient.

Patience is not easy and many of us tend to struggle with it.

But if you can be patient, you’ll definitely reap the benefits at the end of the process.

3. A useful way to think of developing your talents is to consider it as a journey.

It may take a while, but you’ll learn a lot along the way.

You’ll make mistakes and celebrate milestones, and by the time you’re done, your strength will be fully developed to the peak of your abilities.

4. Set goals. People are more successful when they set goals.

Write down what you’d like to accomplish and what date you’d like to achieve this by.

Remember to be realistic and review your goals frequently to keep yourself on track.

Post your goals in places where you’ll see them throughout the day.

The refrigerator, bathroom mirror, and your computer monitor are a few ideas.

This will not only keep you on track, but it’ll also motivate you to reach these goals as quickly as possible.

5. Believe you can do it. Confidence can be one of your greatest strengths and assets.

When trying to improve yourself in any capacity, if you truly believe that you’re able to accomplish anything, you’ve won half the battle.

The battle with your mind is often greater than any challenge you face in reality.

You may have tough days when you’re unsure of yourself, but as long as you get back on track quickly, you’ll build momentum.

Remember, you can do this!

Final Thoughts on Developing Your Strengths

Strengthening your strengths may be a daunting and overwhelming journey at times.

And, yes, it will take some work.

But everything worth anything involves hard work!

It’s important to focus on the big picture and remember the rewards you’ll enjoy once this process is over.

Also, ensure that you have the unwavering belief that you can accomplish anything you set your mind to.

By possessing these two attributes, you’ll be on the road to success in no time!

What new skills have you discovered?

How are you developing these skills and turning them into strengths?

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August 5, 2019March 26, 2018

The victory of success is half won when one gains the habit of work. – Sarah Bolton

August 4, 2019March 26, 2018

You cannot plow a field by turning it over in your mind. – Unknown

August 4, 2019March 26, 2018

How to Get More Done in Less Time

Do you find yourself wishing there were more hours in the day?

Our lives are so filled with work, family, and appointments that we often can’t seem to fit in everything we need to accomplish in a 24-hour day.

But what if we could accomplish more in less time?

If this were actually possible, it would allow us more time with those we care about and more time to focus on ourselves.

The good news is: there are simple strategies you can use to make the most of your days!

These tips will enable you to get more done in less time:

1. Make a list. Write out everything that you need to accomplish, and then joyfully cross off each task as you complete it.

As you see your list dwindling, it’ll provide the needed motivation to get the rest of the list done, too.

Put your list on the refrigerator, in your daily planner, or on the computer. Keep it somewhere handy so you can look at it often and stay focused.

2. Prioritize effectively. Determine which tasks are most important and what can possibly wait until later on in the day, week, or month.

If this is something you’re having trouble with, you may be trying to squeeze in tasks that can actually be put on hold for a future time.

Note the deadlines for your tasks.

If your in-laws are coming to visit, then cleaning the guest bathroom takes priority over re-organizing the basement.

3. Avoid procrastinating. Far too many people put things off to the last possible minute.

When this happens, we rush frantically to accomplish everything, but we end up doing a cruddy job and get ourselves all worked up for no good reason.

There is a better way!

Use your morning hours wisely and get tasks started early in the day.

Chances are you’ll finish them in one day rather than having it drag into a second day because you didn’t have enough time to get things done.

For some, this may mean waking up an hour or two earlier instead of sleeping an hour or two later.

4. Do the unpleasant tasks first. A great time management trick is to get the things you dislike out of the way first.

If you keep putting it off, you’ll attempt to squeeze it in somewhere, and you’ll get the feeling of being overwhelmed.

Schedule something fun after you finish your to-do list. This will motivate you to complete the list quicker.

5. Multi-task if you can. If you’re able to accomplish two things at once, then by all means do it.

If you can put dinner on the stove while making a doctor’s appointment or wait for a load of laundry to finish while you mend a pair of pants, you can cut your time in half.

6. Don’t sacrifice the quality of the tasks you’re performing.

If you burn dinner because you were looking at the calendar to make an appointment, this only wastes more of your time in the long run.

Unfortunately, there are days where it seems like we don’t have enough of the precious gift of time.

Thankfully, we can improve our time management skills so we’re able to accomplish more in any given day.

Improving these skills will reduce your stress level and give you more time to do the things that make you happy, leading to a more peaceful and fulfilling life.

How successful have you been lately about time management?

How much time have you given for yourself, your family, and your responsibilities?

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August 3, 2019March 26, 2018

How to Grow a Backbone

Do you feel as if everyone is taking advantage of your good nature?

Do you think they would still do it if you were more assertive?

Becoming more assertive is a goal that many of us want to achieve.

We feel disrespected and we want to be able to stand our ground without guilt or fear.

Developing a backbone is not an easy task, but it can be accomplished if you’re committed to it.

Here are some simple tips that will enable you to strengthen your assertiveness as quickly as possible:

1. Stop apologizing. Many of us use the term “I’m sorry” far too frequently and often at inappropriate times.

Think about when you use those two simple words. Is it in a situation that you truly should be sorry for?

Once you’re able to stop apologizing for every little thing, you’ll become more assertive.

Learn to differentiate between when there’s a need to apologize and when there isn’t.

Hitting someone’s cart in a grocery store because you weren’t looking warrants an apology.

Drinking the last cup of orange juice before your spouse is not a situation that warrants an “I’m sorry.”

If you’re watching television and your child prefers to sit in the chair you’re sitting in, “I’m sorry” isn’t appropriate.

2. Speak up. Tell those around you what you need.

Assertiveness requires good communication skills.

Be clear and firm with what you desire.

Practice standing up for yourself by conveying your wants and desires to others.

There’s no need to be aggressive or nasty.

Simply communicate that you have thoughts, opinions and needs, too.

Once you begin to express these better, the people around you will learn how to appreciate and respect you more, too.

If you want to develop a backbone, this isn’t the time to be a mouse and stand in the corner.

Voice your opinion and be proud of what you have to say; people will take notice and listen.

3. Be committed and patient. It’s wonderful that you’ve decided to make positive changes in your life.

It’s something that you should be proud of!

Unfortunately though, a complete transformation won’t occur overnight.

You’ve entered into a journey, and you must be willing to stick it out!

You’ll experience good and bad days, but you mustn’t give up.

As long as you remain committed and patient, you’ll succeed in what you’re trying to accomplish.

Focus on the big picture down the road and imagine how much your life will improve once you’re able to stand up for yourself.

4. Work on your body language. Body language is extremely important in any situation.

When trying to become more assertive, your body language must reflect this as well.

Stand straight, speak up, make sure your hands aren’t crossed over your chest, and maintain eye contact with whomever you’re speaking with.

5. If you look assertive, people will perceive you as such.

If you keep your eyes on the floor, have your hands across your chest, or mumble incoherently, you’ll have trouble to get your point across.

Assertiveness can help you in your personal life, career, family, and many other areas.

Though it may take a bit of time, as long as you make positive steps to grow your new backbone, it will be there before you know it!

How can you be more proactive?

How can you face a stressful challenge that you have been backing away from?

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August 3, 2019March 26, 2018

Lead me, follow me, or get out of my way. – General George Patton

August 2, 2019March 26, 2018

Never walk away from failure. On the contrary, study it carefully and imaginatively for its hidden assets. – Michael Korda

August 2, 2019March 26, 2018

How to Live the Law of Attraction

The Law of Attraction has intrigue more people than ever.

So what is the Law of Attraction and how can it benefit you?

It’s actually a quite simple concept.

If you focus on the positive, you’ll attract the positive.

If you focus on the negative, you’ll attract the negative.

Because of its simplicity, some people think this is utterly ridiculous, yet the Law of Attraction has been proven by countless people around the world throughout the ages.

If you have an open mind and are willing to give it a try, you can live the life of your dreams.

Here are some simple tips and suggestions you can use to live the Law of Attraction:

1. Rid yourself of negative thoughts and feelings.

Negativity will ultimately drive away the positive things you deserve, so you must learn how to erase your mind of anything negative.

Quite honestly, this will require some practice, but it’s worth it!

For example, if you find yourself standing in a long line and complaining about it, stop complaining and be thankful that you’re well enough to stand in that line.

If you’re five dollars short to purchase something and wishing you weren’t so poor, turn that around to be thankful you have any money at all.

After you consciously do this enough times, it will become second nature.

The more you focus on positive things, the more positive things you’ll receive and vice versa.

2. Surround yourself with those who think the same.

Plain and simple, this means to hang out with positive people.

If you spend enough time surrounded by negative people, you’ll begin to complain, whine, and sulk over meaningless things, too.

Is there someone in your life that you admire because of his or her optimistic outlook?

Then that person is someone you’ll want to spend quality time with.

Engulf yourself in their happiness and positive karma, and you’ll soon be upbeat and positive, too!

3. Visualize what the future holds for you.

We all hold hopes and dreams for our future.

Whether we want a better job, a bigger house, a new car, or more money, we all wish and daydream for something.

Next time you daydream about that new house, actually visualize yourself in the house.

Imagine exactly what the house looks like, your family watching television in the living room, and you making their favorite dish in the kitchen.

Visualization sends a positive signal out to the universe.

If you practice it consistently, you’ll be rewarded with what you desire.

4. Learn to give thanks. Whether or not you realize it, you have much to be thankful for.

It’s extremely important that you take some quiet time to give thanks for all that has been given to you.

Truly search your soul and list everything you’re grateful for.

Don’t do this haphazardly!

Practice this each and every day, usually upon rising in the morning.

As you keep doing this, you’ll discover that you’re receiving more and more to be thankful for.

The principles surrounding the Law of Attraction are quite straightforward.

To live the Law of Attraction, you just need an open mind, a willing spirit and a bit of diligence.

With these, you’ll soon be praising the success of the Law of Attraction principles yourself.

What activities are you doing to attract happiness in your life?

How much time are you spending on having fun?

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